"... and then they were saying things about me, like that I’m delicious. You have women leaving their numbers or playing coy. The women who hit on me do so in a way that is more acceptable. They don’t cross certain lines, whereas men are much more blunt, forward and obvious."

Said Tyler Jakes, a NYC waiter quoted in "THE TIPPING EQUATION/At restaurants across America, servers calculate how far is too far, weighing harassing behavior against the tips they need to make a living wage." (NYT).